A no-gift birthday acknowledgement should begin with the child's preference

A simple group message may be welcome, or private recognition may suit better. Check service practice and the child's choice before proceeding, keeping cost comparisons and unnecessary public personal details outside the activity.

A group message can acknowledge the day without presents.

Ask whether and how recognition is wanted

Check the child's preference and the service's practice first. A simple acknowledgement should not become an obligation to disclose dates or provide gifts.

Check preferences and service practice. Offer a simple option. Respect declining.

Do not disclose personal dates publicly without the applicable process. Is the recognition wanted?

Offer private acknowledgement.

Resources

• Activity Setup Checklist — Write the selected event activity, materials and participation choices in the editable setup checklist.

Further reading

• ACECQA — play, leisure and intentionality
• United Nations — international days and weeks

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