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Disagree about a community proposal without judging its supporters

Separate criticism of a proposal from criticism of the person offering it.

Two fictional proposals for the same park give children something specific to discuss. Invite reasons connected to the proposals, and leave room for someone to change their view after hearing new information.

Invite reasons about the proposal and allow changed views. Agreement is not required for participants to show respectful discussion.

Respond to the reason on the table

Restate the proposal accurately. Give a reasoned concern. Offer a question or possible revision.

Say a path may be too narrow for shared use, rather than describing its designer as careless.

Respectful discussion does not require agreeing with every idea. Does the response address the proposal itself?

Offer written, drawn or partner-delivered questions.

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