A disagreement pause needs a way back

Saving the materials and agreeing on a supported return can make a break workable. Without a next contact or continuation plan, pausing may quietly become abandoning the project or excluding a participant from the decision.

Notice the need for a pause. Agree on a next contact. Return with educator support.

Preserve the work and name the next contact

Saving the materials can make a later discussion possible.

Explain how materials and decisions will be saved during the pause. A clear return process can prevent the interruption becoming abandonment.

A pause should not become permanent exclusion. How will the group reconnect?

Offer a quiet alternative activity.

Resources

• Kind or Unkind Scenario Sorting — Discuss the fictional actions and possible effects without labelling real children.

Further reading

• ACECQA — play, leisure and intentionality

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